He’s been home for just over 24 hours and they are already setting him up to join their Minecraft network!
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And just like that… one hundred and ninety eight days after he left… my ranga is home <3
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After six and a half months deployed to the middle east, their dad is finally coming home tomorrow!
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Twenty year old Darci, in her natural environment… shhh, try not to startle her…
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Happy Christening Day to my new little godson, Noah <3
photo by Xanthia

My baby girl… Willow | 13 years <3
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Yep – I’m ‘that’ mum… the one who takes her camera into her daughters workplace… in my defence, I did wait until just before closing time, and I did wait until all the customers had left… of course, her coworkers and boss thought I was hilarious – Xan, not so much!
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Xanthia is making rumballs… it’s something she and her dad normally do together, but he has been deployed for over six months now, and she is not waiting any longer!
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Darci hasn’t been home since before New Year, she’s been spending time with her boyfriend in Queensland… but tonight she came home, and there was a lot of catching up to do!
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Now, this is my boy… my beautiful, fluffy, loyal, squishy, St Bernard x, Emmett <3 … totally happy to see me – even when he’s not hungry!
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Zoe in her natural environment…
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“Xan, can I just take a quick photo?”
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Xanthia is loving her summer holidays!
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I know I’m not biased… my baby girl look like a Botticelli masterpiece, right?
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Yes… just seven days in and I’ve missed one already! Damn!
When it comes to the ‘Nurture vs Nature’ debate, I’ve always leaned towards the ‘nurture’ side of the argument… but this girls total devotion and love of horses, gives me pause… city born and breed (for the sake of this argument, we are going to call her birthplace of Darwin a ‘city’), she certainly wasn’t raised with any sort of horsey indoctrination… it is just in her blood <3
Santa gave her a four day riding camp for Christmas in the hope of getting it out of her system… ‘he’ failed and now, after day three of her course, she is already booked in for weekly lessons for the whole of term one… what have I done!!?
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It all seems so complicated to be a teen these days… there doesn’t seem to be any down time… right now, Xan is Skyping on her phone to one friend, while chatting online to another!
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Jaimi… the one I will always get to keep <3
She is 23 years old, autistic and intellectually disabled… she loves dinosaurs; crocodiles; cheetahs; and the Sydney Swans. She likes to watch documentary DVDs, alone on her laptop… she will watch the same ones over and over and over… and get just as excited every single time.
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Zoe | 21 years… she has graduated uni in Queensland and now moved back home to Canberra… looking so grown up! … I’m not ready for her to be so grown up!
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I think this is my favourite photo of Xanthia EVER! It is just so #Xan <3
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Dexter doesn’t seem nearly as excited by his Christmas outfit as Emmett was…

What could be cuter than a giant dog in a Yoda Santa hat??

Xan and Willow are spreading their Christmas cheer through the neighbourhood!

… and here she is… Zoe Bingley, university graduate! #soproud #batchelorofdigitalmedia

We are all on our way to the Gold Coast, to see my gorgeous Zoe graduate from Griffith University!!

I asked the girls if they could get another house key cut for me, while they were out shopping… this is what they came home with!! #winning

Emmett and Willow (and Raffie), just chillin’ on the couch <3

Christmas card photo shoot!! Fun, fun, fun… and frustration of course, but that goes without saying!

So this year, my grandmother passed the Christmas Cake baton to me… she gave me the recipe, the cake tin and the storage container she has been using for over 30 years to make the most perfect Christmas Cakes ever… no pressure, right?
Willow: No offense but... no matter how good your cake is, it won’t be as good as Pat‘s (my grandmother)
Me: How won’t I take offense at that?
Willow: Sorry, mum… but it’s PAT!
Me: :/
Willow: You know, when YOU are 85 and you pass this job down to one of us, our kids will say we can’t make it as well as you… but then I will tell them that my great-grandmother made the best Christmas Cakes ever!
… you are a hard act to follow Pat McConnachie!

My ranga bought me these awesome Peter Alexander PJ’s for Christmas… he doesn’t know it yet – but he did some great shopping!

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Xanthia was bored with painting on the paper… so she branched out 😉

I’m sure the girls have picked up on my lack of enthusiasm for Christmas this year, so they are going all out to make up for the absence of their dad. Her they are putting up Christmas lights on the house… God help me!

Look how our bunnies have grown!

I’m home again and life carries on as normal… today it’s tree time! I’m trying to get into the spirit, but i’m falling a bit flat so far… but my gorgeous girls are making up for it with their abundance of enthusiasm and Christmas joy!

This is me at the Qantas lounge in Sydney… feeling all sad and sorry for myself.

I lost this day in transit between Rome, and Dubai, and Sydney… it was emotional and heartbreaking to have to say goodbye to my ranga again – it’s probably best I don’t have any photos of that.
… and just like that, it was over… on the train, back to the airport 🙁

Our last full day in Italy… I don’t want to say goodbye 🙁
We spent the day wandering around Rome and finding our way to the Jewish Ghetto, where all our tour guides recommend we would find the best food – lunch did not disappoint!

Today we took in another movie – Spectre (James Bond); ate at our favourite pizza bakery; and marveled, once again, at the phenomenal parking prowess of the Romans!

So, I made the mistake of letting Russ choose our last tour of the holiday… he choose to do the Catacombs tour… it was creepy and weird, with rooms decorated with human bones… and kilometers of underground burial chambers accessed by tiny dirt-lined corridors. I am both sad and relieved that we were not allowed to take photographs of all the icky things!
